Fifty Patterns for Making Sense

 

2.  Start locally

 

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Confine your actions to your local place in the system.  Study listening there first.

 

 

 

   
 

The Chinese say that the longest journey begins with the first step.  Learning to listen begins with effective listening in the situations closest to you.  First learn the dynamics of personal attentiveness.  Then go on to interpersonal listening.  Finally you will be able to interpret what goes on around you, even where youhave no ultimate ability to influence the situation.

Structural changes in a system come first from an increase in fluctuations at the local level.  When these become great enough, influences from outside the system can produce the leverage to alter the entire system.  Your actions that go beyond the local region are likely to be your least effective actions.

 

   
   
 

Don't assume you know in advance how to achieve your long-range objectives, but learn by going (3).  Using chain and network, not hub and wheel (9) communication try to achieve small differences (23) being sure to respect other's autonomy (24) and personal space (25).  Be specific to the actual situation; say elm, not tree (40).  Take care with the most local situation, your own life and exercise (47) and watch your diet (48) as a way of controlling your own levels of stress.

 

   
 

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