Fifty Patterns for Making Sense

 

49.  Cultivate your own humanity

 

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Build non-work activities into your life.  Engage in one of these activities before any particularly difficult communication situation.

 

 

   
 

The personality type that is more prone to cardiac disease than any other has been called the 'Type-A' personality.  These people are always in a hurry, always worried about success, competition, time, and order.  Type-A's have no time in their lives for anything but work because they define themselves by their work.  The more work they do, the stronger identity they feel.

Type-A's achieve their minor work successes and their major health and social failures by ignoring any aspects of their lives that do not directly contribute to their work.  All of us can fall into Type-A behavior at times.  Some of us live there all of the time.

The key to controlling Type-A behavior is to cultivate other aspects of your life.  Take up a musical instrument, learn to pain, study a language, plant a garden, read books out of your field.  Be sure to take vacations, not just from your workplace but take vacations from your worry about getting things done.

The most creative and successful people are not Type-A's anyway.  Why kill yourself for a false productivity when creativity is just a matter of learning to slow yourself down?

 

   
   
 

Flextime (22) may give you better access to activities outside your sphere of work activities.  Privatize (26) communications with others to get the greatest variety in your presentation of yourself to others.  Don't worry as much as your professional image as you do about your human identity (39).

 

   
 

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